Suspicious Minds Rules the Heart and Soul and Can Destroy a Person
There are many relationships suffering because of "suspicious minds" and they're ruining relationships and friendships throughout the world. I've analyzed myself and I'm glad I feel I'm not the suspicious type, but then again, my spouse has not given me any reasons not to trust him nor do I give him reasons to distrust me. I've seen many marriages and relationships end because their spouses/mates are suspicious of all of their activities.
People who suffer from suspicious minds do suffer from a lot of mental and tormenting anxiety in their lives. They do not trust the person they're in a relationship with nor do they trust other people's activities they're associate with either. A person who has a suspicious mind can make life miserable for them and for those who are in a relationship, marriage or friendship too with them.
A suspicious mind can cause an individual to suffer from depression, and in some cases, a complete mental breakdown or suicide can occur. I've seen it happen repeatedly throughout my lifetime as I associated with co-workers, friends, and family members who suffer from this type of a personality. Their logic is they're right about their suspicions and "no-one" else is right and they do not want any static from anyone. They allow their imaginary mind to conjure up all sorts of false thoughts and ideas that are incorrect. They don't take the time to listen when they're accusing a person of a wrong and they'll insist they're right regardless of what the person has to say. This is because they've allowed their imaginations to take over and play tricks with their mind.
A suspicious mind is dangerous because it allows suspicions to manifest until they intensify and the person cannot bring themselves to listen to common sense arguments. Their mind magnifies their false thoughts and ideas until they become enraged and a monster comes out within and they'll spurt out all sorts of things to the one they love, to a friend, a co-worker, or a family member. This can be tragic for the person who is on the accusation end of the attack and it can end up ruining a beautiful relationship or friendship too.
If there's a person out there who reads this article and believes they have a suspicious mind, take a couple steps back and sit down to analyze why they have a suspicious mind in the first place? What actually happened to cause this onset of suspicions to occur? What did the person do to cause distrust about their activities and actions?
Have you faced the person you're accusing? Did you tell them why you commenced to have suspicions about their activities? Listen to the person and allow them to tell you and explain to you about their actions and activities at that particular time. It's important to remember the person you're speaking with does mean something to you and that you're not happy about your suspicious mind. This should clear up your suspicions and get your life back on the right track before it destroys relationships.
It's important to remember love is trust and "no-one" likes to be distrusted about their activities and actions. Suspicions are just what they're called "suspicions" and it has all been conjured up in a person's imaginary mind and it will destroy them if they buy into their suspicious mind and allow it to control them.
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