Recently we cannot hide all these, everyone can witness the bad attitude(s) that most couples are facing and doing. Today is the wedding, next month is divorce. Is this because lot of people does not know what they are doing or is it that they do not know what they need in life, no one can really tell but I assure you, there are minor things which needs to be fully considered in this journey.
If people continue to plan a marriage without inviting GOD the creator of it, they are just wasting their precious time doing so. A man should and must marry a woman whom he loves not only because that woman has a good appearance, to be honest, he must take enough time to know the background of the woman he is willing to make the Madam of the house, qualities should be highly considered, obedience, discipline, interests, habits, and now the appearance can considered, If a man loves God, it is impossible for that man to marry a woman who does not love God at all. If a man is a Doctor, I highly encourage him to marry a woman with the same profession to avoid conflicts, If a man does not drink alcohol how can it be possible for him to have the interest in a woman who is always drinking alcohol, smoking and doing all the staff?, the interests and habits should match.
For the couple to be successful and to enjoy and for them to feel joy and happiness, there are important steps to ponder, both of them should invest and spend enough time together, they should have some quality time together, be understandable, they should be aware of the so called “minor mistakes” which really ends up separating families or brought divorce to many today.
Things like, not showing interest when one is talking or doing something, always shouting, ignoring one’s needs and feelings, not having enough time in your long term relationship or marriage. You know a woman needs to be told that she is beautiful, she is loved time and again where else a man needs to be respected, he needs to be honoured, to be appreciated, oh! He needs a woman who is always faithful, telling the truth always.
A man needs a woman who can satisfy his needs, who can just take a good care of him, who can always prepare delicious meal, who can prepare clothes for him, who can bear with him during tough times and the woman who so is supportive to lift him up.
I assure you today, go and apply faithfulness, respect and have some quality time to your partner. Your marriage will cope until God departs you with death.
Good luck to your marriage.