Is there a monumental difference between an ambitious female who wants to achieve her dreams from the ambitious man who strives to do the same – or – is it that women are oppressed into cutting down their emotional wants; trained to be heartless; numb and obedient, something like machines created to cook. Are females thought to be generalized as species valuable only for their glamorous bodies and their so called "fragility"?
Why is it that a female has to wait all her life to be approved by some groom in order to get married?
Why does our culture refuse her the ethical privelege of finding someone?
Does she necessarily have to be a product on sale; often being rejected by worthless choosers?
Image yourself in that position. How would you feel like being a commodity of your family show case serving tea and biscuits for a skinny gook who checks you out from head to toe just to judge if you meet his mediocre contemptibility.
When ladies walk out boldly with their heads held up high, struggling against the ever so competitive world just like some men do.. we begin to hear whispering mouths spilling out of street junkie stalkers that pass out their fecal matterd judgements about the characters of devoted females.
Then there’s the neighbours and the relatives acutely pissing out harsh comments on a females dedication, who just may be endeavouring into helping out her family financially. Don’t we all know that mother recession has over took mother nature’s ability to dead lock our brains and fridges?
A lady doing a night job can easily be classified as charecterless in the so called "modern times" of "our" metropolitan societies. Nurses don’t get enough respect. Vulgar rumours spread around them like you wouldn’t imagine. Yes, they say five fingers aren’t alike but the pricky Simon like American Idol judges of today forget to count their own times of execrable acts. When a women loses modesty she is forced by society to commit suicide or be forced into a category of infidels and outcasts.
When a girl preeminently decides to educate herself in a rural region she’s sometimes offered the liberty to achieve her dreams of cultivtion in to the peculiar vast ocean of knowledge till the very sadistic grade of a maxim five years. It’s the kitchen and cotton wool picking training she’s ought to learn after that– followed by giving birth to a dozen of children and being slapped by wife beating hulks who can’t speak out a word of brute infront of a policeman investigating them randomly.
And so if this very girl decides to attain different plans, for instance educating herself into becoming not just a mother but a leader of her dreams, if not society– the culture spits at her with degrading inscriptions. She’s beaten and locked and forced to shut her dreams tight till that squabby of a gook decides to approve her to be the machine she was designed to bear his child, wash his clothes and dishes.
But did you know that there is a unique difference between a prostitute and ambition?
Three fourth of the population in Pakistan don’t see it.
And that is a major issue. It’s more critical than the popular one’s with bombs going off and economic recession causing suicides.
It’s not like recession is a brand new element of surprise for man kind. Didn’t we study about the holocaust? Most of our issues, disregarding education reflect on the concrete basis of feminist rights in our Islamic territory.
Pakistan has a Population of over 130 million. At present, the growth rate is 2.8 percent per year. The major cities are Karachi (10 million),Lahore (5.5 million), Faisalabad (2 million), Rawalpindi (928,000), Islamabad (340,286). Other cities include Peshawar, Quetta, Rawalpindi, Hyderabad, Multan and Sialkot. Major religions are Muslim (97%), Hindu (1.5%), Christian (1%) and several other minorities.
So you can’t be deceived by seeing a minority of liberated women only by spotting out at a handful of ladies ridiculously driving on the streets of Karachi.
Showcasing a sugar coated pill of dirt doesn’t make it sweet. In reality, there is no stabalization in a perfect atmosphere without the atmosphere being ardently balanced. Constitutions, human rights and protection, legislations passed, speeches given, books written; give thought for food.
They make people wonder, but they don’t get back the lives of girls brutally murdered because they lost their systematic cultural plot of nobelity. People disregard the insignificance of a statement that lacks action. Because words, they’re just ink, and ink is only liquid on paper if it’s not understood.
"For the crime of receiving two unrelated men in her home, a 75-year-old Saudi woman has been sentenced to 40 lashes and four months behind bars. A Seventy five year old woman I repeat.
This posture of insignificant weakness and dull reinforcement today is massively ignored and dealt with a rather welcomed attitude. And the main thing is that this lacklustre attitude is collective.
It is adopted by everyone. Therefore it lacks that ingredient of rage. It’s one of those issues people have forgotten in the midst of suicide bombings. Yeah we’ll explode. I don’t care, you can go on rattle your worthless life on me and turn me in to splinters. But what about the women stuck at home staring at walls, doing work for their doped husbands who cheat on them?
What about the females who’re just kids and sometimes get carried away in the humanly power of lust?
Do you cut their noses off or rip their clothes off and burn their faces with acid and strip them in public or hang them on the trees of your village just to feel better?
And in the middle of all this non sensical barbarian bull shit – we don’t know how to fix these issues.
People call it honour, I say you can trash your honour somewhere else – Go cut off your grandpas nose because I can assure you he’s must’ve been carried away at some point of his life too. It’s called human nature. These problems need to be talked about, they need to be mentioned. Or maybe, some of us deep inside – just don’t want to talk about it. It’s going to diminish our stregnth isn’t it? It’s going to make us look like weak. It’s going to make us look like shameless men who let their wives just be.
It’s going to make the society point fingers at us and rejoice. Aren’t feminists a modern joke in the times of today? But do you know what goes through the heart, mind and body of a tortured soul?
Who’s going to fix these problems and create a ratio of balance that allows human equality?
How is that we forget that we were the ones who all came out of women and women are exactly who we’ll chase all our lives?
It’s a woman that helps you continue your blood line just incase you’re so agitated about continuing your genes and having a "son."
So before undermining the power of a woman, and disrespecting her remember the fact that if she had decided to kill you, your father or even the President of the United stats of America just by punching her womb into death while you were vulnerable and depending on her inside – she could have.
But she never will, because she’s a lady. A gift from God who bears your injustice.
But never forget that if all the women in the world just decided turn themselves into the monsters like we are, taking advantage of the times when we’re the physically vulnerable ones – Humanity could end in a blink.
"I was urged to write this report when I saw a husband beating his wife. I was enraged." – Arsalan Khan