Veteran multi media journalist Angela Grant suggests that when interview people who have lost a loved one, tell them that I want to ask them questions about the person and create a sort of memorial to them. People usually like that idea … It’s an honor because you’re saying their loved one is valuable, his or her loss was tragic, and the person is worth remembering.If they say no the first time, I’ll sometimes ask again and just make sure that I explain what I’m trying to do. If they say no a second time, say okay, I’m sorry for your loss. Then leave them alone. Try to get another family member to talk.
I always remember the advice of senior journalists like Angela.I personally avoid putting the camera and boom into someones face without asking their permission.I walk down to the person without my crew and tell him or her who am I and express my condolences.I show them how concerned or sympathetic i am.After Spending sometime with them,I tell them that though I know it’s a difficult time for them but at the same time it’s might helpful for others if the subject talk on camera.