The objective of this article has in mind the objective that the reader is a man who either wants to meet more women, or is one of many gentlemen who desire to pick up a woman, but doesn’t know how to seduce women. There are many books on seduction, even many methods. There are two key elements to successfully creating a dream romantic encounter that will be put forward in this article now…
1. State (internal communication)
What is going on inside of you when you are communicating with women is very important. This is particularly true of romantic encounters. As well as body language (you can pick up a book on this easily), it’s important to keep a check on your state. This means being aware of what your emotions are telling you and directing your body to be in the state you want her to be in.
Excercise: Can you remember a time when you were really relaxed and in rapport with yourself? This is the kind of relaxed, confident state that will position you in good favor when talking to a woman. If you can be in this state, aroused and aware, you will find romantic feelings rising up easier for both you and her, and seduction is made much simpler and easier for you. Try getting yourself in to this state of relaxed, romantic confidence. Imagine yourself being in rapport with a woman in a social setting and being in this state.
2. External communication – verbal and non-verbal
Non-verbal communication basically consists of your physiology & your body language. Some of this is unconscious (well all of it until you make parts conscious). In seduction, it is important to be aware of some signals she may be sending you. This will boost your confidence. Three examples of a woman showing you she is trying to show you how attractive she is or that she is attracted to you: her pupils dilating; playing with her hair; putting her hand on the inside of her thigh.
As for your part, being aware of simple eye contact about 80% of the time. That doesn’t mean stare at her, but when saying something meaningful, say it with authenticity and perhaps look slightly more deeply in to her eyes, for example a compliment about some part of her body that perhaps is not used to being complimented – discretion advised of course!
Excercise: Imagine you have been getting on well with a woman that you want to pick up or seduce. Listen to her engaging in conversation with you, and practise giving her an authentic compliment after noticing something about her you genuinely like. Notice how her pupils dilate and how naturally attractive you feel when this happens. Pay attention to the tone of your voice and how relaxed and confident you are inside. Hear yourself congratulating yourself for being authentic, as she gives you a "thank you" because you have pleasured her in this way.
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