Resentment makes you ill, a young woman was admitted by her doctor with the temperature of 102o her joints were badly sollen. The doctor advised her that she has to be in hospital for 6 months, but the next morning was normal and the doctor sent her home. After a month she was again admitted in same condition. The doctor gathered that her father was insisting that she marry a man as he was an asset to his business, the girl loved her father but she did not want to marry, so she got the temperature. The doctor advised her father that if he insisted with the marriage, the girl will be invalid. This incident shows the effect of mental pain on physical condition. This does not everybody if they stop marrying will be healthy. Though marriage brings lots of problems , it also bring companionship .
we should agree to disagree should be practised in any relationship. what you say is correct and what I am saying is correct to me . we should work out solutions and not be rigid . The husband should not say that what he is doing is correct and the wife also should not feel that she is correct and her husband should meekly obey here . if we follow this policy not only we will be happy we will also be heathy.
Hatred also would cause hazard to yourself and not to others . If you bottle up your emotions you might feel stess and you will be liable to get heart attacks and other diseases